The One
12th January 2008, 01:11 PM
http://images.match.com/match/matchscene/articles/MSNmain9150.jpgSeduction dos and don’ts
By Carmen Electra
Everyone screws up from time to time on a date. You get nervous, you say or do the wrong thing, and Mr. Right turns into Mr. Not Tonight. It happens. Chances are if one little thing sends him packing, he wasn’t the man of your dreams anyhow. But that said, there are certain things you should remember as seduction no-nos:
No bragging, boasting, and complaining!
If you spend the entire evening talking about how fabulous you are — and you never let him get a word in edgewise — you can bet you’ll find yourself surfing the Internet on Saturday nights. Confident is great, but cocky and conceited are just not attractive. I have always found that people who toot their own horns too loudly are really insecure. It’s all a cover-up for how inferior they feel to the rest of us. Would you want to be in a relationship with someone who harbors such incredible insecurity? I rest my case.
Guys love it when you ask a lot of questions—about them, mostly. They like to feel like they are the center of the universe, so try turning the conversation back in his direction now and then. Toss in an occasional, “What do you think?” and he’ll be purring like a kitten. This will also give you a chance to practice your sexiest, most flirtatious “I want you now” look—or to finish your meal!
To read more of this article visit: http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=9150&TrackingID=516311&BannerID=544657&menuid=6>1=10787
Copyright © 2007 by Electra Blue Productions, Inc. From the book How To Be Sexy by Carmen Electra, published by Broadway Books, a division of Random House, Inc.
By Carmen Electra
Everyone screws up from time to time on a date. You get nervous, you say or do the wrong thing, and Mr. Right turns into Mr. Not Tonight. It happens. Chances are if one little thing sends him packing, he wasn’t the man of your dreams anyhow. But that said, there are certain things you should remember as seduction no-nos:
No bragging, boasting, and complaining!
If you spend the entire evening talking about how fabulous you are — and you never let him get a word in edgewise — you can bet you’ll find yourself surfing the Internet on Saturday nights. Confident is great, but cocky and conceited are just not attractive. I have always found that people who toot their own horns too loudly are really insecure. It’s all a cover-up for how inferior they feel to the rest of us. Would you want to be in a relationship with someone who harbors such incredible insecurity? I rest my case.
Guys love it when you ask a lot of questions—about them, mostly. They like to feel like they are the center of the universe, so try turning the conversation back in his direction now and then. Toss in an occasional, “What do you think?” and he’ll be purring like a kitten. This will also give you a chance to practice your sexiest, most flirtatious “I want you now” look—or to finish your meal!
To read more of this article visit: http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=9150&TrackingID=516311&BannerID=544657&menuid=6>1=10787
Copyright © 2007 by Electra Blue Productions, Inc. From the book How To Be Sexy by Carmen Electra, published by Broadway Books, a division of Random House, Inc.